It is weird watching a marriage fall apart. A longtime friend of mine and his wife of over 20 years will be headed down that path soon. They've had separate rooms for a long time (she claims his snoring is terrible) and they were barely banging the last 3 or 4 years. So he now has this side piece (who tells him he doesn't snore at all), who he spends 90% of his time with. He and his soon to be ex-wife have a daughter going into her second year at the University of Iowa (yes she's hot and no, nothing in a two piece) and recently, on my friend's birthday, he and his daughter went out to a movie and then returned home where his daughter had made him a cake, put candles in it and sang him happy birthday. All the while his wife was in the next room watching TV and never bothered to join them at all.
What's weird is that they simply don't talk. When I got a divorce back in 1992, at least we had some big blow-ups and then it was over. These two, as my friend recently told me "haven't probably said 100 words to each other since October".
I couldn't live like that.
My situation isn't this bad, but that's more along the lines of what I'm dealing with. Your friend is stupid to have a side gal, if his wife finds out, he's f'd (or he would be in NC). That's one thing I'm proud of, I've at least not cheated on her. I'm also pleased that so far my friends have really rallied around me and been great. I was afraid I'd become persona non-grata in my buddies' wifes eyes and they'd discourage them from hanging out, but so far they've all been super supportive. We're getting together tonight for some beers in fact. Unlike this sad bunch, they'd post TONS of hotness if I asked them to! Get with it AOTF, I want pushing the line bewbz, mons, ass and nip picks. Let'er rip and let's see what the new line in the sand is with the new mods.