Here's the thing, though, and I'm seriously trying to help. I get the impression you're at least 50. You want to be around to see your kids grow up, and I would think (unless you're Jagger or Alec Baldwin or DeNiro loaded) you'd rather not be paying college tuition when you're into your 70s or older. Be wary of women looking for a baby daddy, and exercise discretion when it comes to using that big tool.but maybe it's family and not marriage necessarily. last night i was watching the newcastle documentary on amazon. my daughter was in her room blasting taylor swift's august on a loop. might not be a great sign. and my little guy was building his train in the living room. great night. if my house was empty maybe i'd feel differently. so maybe when they're all gone i'll be old enough to get on the cougar track. tho that wouldn't comport with my bucket list to spend a year visiting english grounds and pubs along w/ euro nights
And you likely won't be able to rely on work for happiness in your senior years. It's kind of a tired cliche, but there's truth to it - - no one ever says on their deathbed that they wished they had spent more time at the office.
You'd benefit from a solid, live-in relationship. And a woman who's at least in the same generation is probably the way to go.