I don't know what it is in that fight, it might be play but then it might be play they were told not to engage in.
By coincidence the American Psychological Association issued a
new report on boys and men this week. The Chief of Professional Practice for
the APA said:
"I was very impressed by [the ad]," says Skillings. "I thought that not only did it highlight some of the positive traits about masculinity, for example that men can be competitive playing sports or could enjoy barbecuing and enjoying company with other men, but it also highlighted the ways in which this traditional, or toxic, masculinity has harmed other people, including women, and in some ways, men themselves."