I am looking for a video I saw a few weeks back that would show inappropriate heterosexual talk from a teacher....if I find I will post, but basically it was a 20 something teacher talking to her class about something like "OMG, he did not call me like he was supposed to last night" young class reacts like "Oh no!" And she goes on to ramble about her relationship like she is gossiping with her sorority pals.Bumping this question again, for ANYONE to answer.
The reality is that a few teachers are LGBTQ. As always, most of them hide that aspect of their lives, certainly in the school setting. Probably a few more than in the past are more open to quitting the act of pretending to be straight, if asked.
Most references to a gay partner, for example, are probably casual and no more detailed than a reference to an opposite sex partner. (Yes, my partner and I went to the state fair on Saturday, for example). But NOBODY gets upset at the mention of an opposite sex partner. The same type of reference, but to a same sex partner, causes all hell to break loose. Indoctrination! Grooming! A coming apocalypse!
I went years in school and I could probably count on my fingers how many times a teacher's spouse came up. It just wasn't something that got brought up often.