Warning, boring personal story ahead:
I grew up in Bedford and my family went to church every Sunday (not also Wednesday, or Saturday but we did on Sunday) and it just never connected with me. The stories didn't make logical sense especially to how my world was at the time....and that always bothered me.
Anyway I started watching Cosmos and was immediately connecting to it, the theories, the insignificance of us compared to the universe, etc. That made sense to a ten year old but most of all he was humble and would point out this is what the consensus scientific community believes at the time and it's constantly evolving, asking questions, disproving old theories with new information, etc.
Again totally changed my personal paradigm.
The second thing was literally the first Star Trek movie (both were around 1980 so I was 10/11 years old) whereas the basic concept was a mechanical super being was heading straight for earth to reconnect with its creator (us) but it couldn't come to grips that the creator was a completely different being than it (as it was mechanical and we are organic carbon) and was going to destroy all the humans because they obviously were enemies that killed his creator.
Basically it was talking about the lack of humility (and in turn our lack of humility as an organism because God can only be seen in our own image).
Again, massive brain explosion.
Us as an organism have always put us at the center of the universe with great consequence and deep meaning (example: There's an afterlife ecosystem for us but not for the cat because we've special. When I dream I am tapping into a clairvoyant realm....when my dog dreams he's just making noises because we are special. In a previous life I was a great person of history, not a serf that got his brains beaten in by a lord and died in a mound of horseshit because I am special).
In comparison to Segan and frikken Star Trek, the church seemed like teaching nonsense and really pushed the great arrogance, which turned me off even more.
To this day, I don't believe any human has ever talked to God....much less was able to take notes and pass on 'God's words'.
Thats nonsense told for social validation.
I get the moral teachings of the church and kind of get the social value (I believe we need three or more social places...home, work, the pub, the church, the course).
I also respect the hell out of a church helping out it's community with kindness.
Giving the church any kind of power or again, validation (what does the church think? I don't care what the church thinks any more than what Comic Con thinks) is not nor has it ever been a thing with me.
Thanks for listening. Lol