I didn't specifically have you in mind, and I'm not really bitching about hypocrisy -- which is, after all, the compliment that vice pays to virtue. In the age of Trump, where he and his supporters no longer feel bound to give even that hypocritical nod, hypocrisy seems a failing from a more innocent time.
In the past, we've had debates about whether the government's terrorism messaging ought to expressly emphasize the Islamic nature of the threat. People like me said that was a bad idea, because (among other things) it would alienate the people we want to reach. People who are Real Americans told me this was stupid, and all the good Muslims would understand we didn't mean them. That group includes people now being triggered as white men by this silly Gillette ad. That seems less hypocritical than clueless to me. I'm a flawed fallible human like anyone, but I'll be pretty embarrassed when anyone catches me doing something so deeply unself-aware. Not that it couldn't happen. Just that it would (likely will) be really embarrassing.
I don't know whether this is an effective ad. Until I saw how powerful a trigger it was, I didn't care about it. But I think there's something in us white men that's frightened by the pace of social and demographic change. We're acting out like we used to make fun of The Special Interests for doing. We never understood how they could act so irrationally under perceived stress, and now we're acting out irrationally under perceived stress. The data say our life span is falling because of suicides and drug overdoses. Someone with a lot of irony in their diet might wonder if there's a problem with white culture.
This feels like it ought to be an occasion for introspection. Speaking as a white male (who's been reliably informed that he's emotionally unavailable), that might be the hardest possible thing for us to do. But it could be the best thing, especially for us.