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There's not such thing as liberal or conservative kids. Their parents, sure.

There should be no "grooming" of children to a lifestyle or ideology. Where we disagree was the weirdo preschool teacher. You say she's "grooming" the children. I, however, think she's trying to teach tolerance in a really hamfisted way.

She's probably a shitty teacher. But not a groomer.
Again, instead of gay if she was spending a bunch of school time to explain tenets of Christianity or Islam with the kids, would that be evangelizing? If "groomer" gives you pause, then how about evangelically gay?

She is seeking converts. (And I don't necessarily mean turning them into some other but she is proselytizing to get them to join her worldview. She is an indoctrinator.)
 
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that's ****ing hilarious. Teachers do more shit outside of teaching (because they are required to or expected to) than at any time in this country's history.
How is that working out and who asked them to? I would say not well and sure as hell was not people like me.
 
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Weak. And untrue.
Neither. And I don't say that in an inflammatory way. I believe that is the issue...they don't want any mention of two dads or two moms because it normalizes it. Maybe not to a rational person like you, but to the right that is leading the charge on issues like this? Like the 'Don't say gay' crowd? absolutely I think this
 
Really? it isn't flaming red conservatives in states like Indiana? Are you sure about that?
Specifically, what are flaming red conservatives in Indiana asking teachers to cover that they have not in the past? Educate me. What are flaming red conservatives asking teachers to do?

I am ignorant, teach me.
 
Neither. And I don't say that in an inflammatory way. I believe that is the issue...they don't want any mention of two dads or two moms because it normalizes it. Maybe not to a rational person like you, but to the right that is leading the charge on issues like this? Like the 'Don't say gay' crowd? absolutely I think this
The lefts overreaction to the Dont Say Gay fiasco is proof they are not serious people. Forbidding discussing gender ideology with 3rd graders isn’t bigotry. It’s common sense.
 
Neither. And I don't say that in an inflammatory way. I believe that is the issue...they don't want any mention of two dads or two moms because it normalizes it. Maybe not to a rational person like you, but to the right that is leading the charge on issues like this? Like the 'Don't say gay' crowd? absolutely I think this
"Don't say gay" is as real as "hands up don't shoot".
 
Again, instead of gay if she was spending a bunch of school time to explain tenets of Christianity or Islam with the kids, would that be evangelizing?
Yes, she would. And that would be wrong in a public school. However, I don't think she was looking for converts as you note. I believe she was trying to preach (for lack of a better term) tolerance.

But saying she's looking for converts or pushing a lifestyle b/c she is failing in what she's trying to do just doesn't scan with me. She may be queer and she may be weird but that doesn't make her particularly harmful.
 
There's not such thing as liberal or conservative kids. Their parents, sure.

There should be no "grooming" of children to a lifestyle or ideology. Where we disagree was the weirdo preschool teacher. You say she's "grooming" the children. I, however, think she's trying to teach tolerance in a really hamfisted way.

She's probably a shitty teacher. But not a groomer.
I guess I'm still confused. Any idea what specifically the original preschool teacher in question here was actually doing that was so awful?
 
I guess I'm still confused. Any idea what specifically the original preschool teacher in question here was actually doing that was so awful?
Outside of poorly explaining how to teach tolerance to preschoolers, not much.

I mean, I wouldn't advocate her aesthetic but who am I to judge.
 
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Yes, she would. And that would be wrong in a public school. However, I don't think she was looking for converts as you note. I believe she was trying to preach (for lack of a better term) tolerance.

But saying she's looking for converts or pushing a lifestyle b/c she is failing in what she's trying to do just doesn't scan with me. She may be queer and she may be weird but that doesn't make her particularly harmful.
So you are cool with a public school teacher turning her/his classroom into Sunday School in the name of tolerance I assume?

"Sorry that my whole tolerance conversation revolved around tolerating just this one specific viewpoint. Don't be mad at me, I am not dangerous. I am just failing in getting across the tolerance message I was going for."

You would buy that like I am buying your explanation.
 
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The lefts overreaction to the Dont Say Gay fiasco is proof they are not serious people. Forbidding discussing gender ideology with 3rd graders isn’t bigotry. It’s common sense.
The funny thing is, a clear majority of people actually agree with the text of that bill, both in Florida and nationwide.
 
I guess I'm still confused. Any idea what specifically the original preschool teacher in question here was actually doing that was so awful?
I think - to me - the assumption is that she’s talking to preschoolers about queerness or being queer. Her existence in the classroom isn’t problematic but her discussing it with 4 and unders is clearly a problem in confusing the kids. It positions queerness as something to aspire to as many kids want to be like their teachers at a young age.

She used activist language such as “Allies” and that tells me she is discussing it with the kids. And that’s not ok.
 
I think - to me - the assumption is that she’s talking to preschoolers about queerness or being queer. Her existence in the classroom isn’t problematic but her discussing it with 4 and unders is clearly a problem in confusing the kids. It positions queerness as something to aspire to as many kids want to be like their teachers at a young age.

She used activist language such as “Allies” and that tells me she is discussing it with the kids. And that’s not ok.
I can agree with this take. I understand what she's "trying" to do but I think she's doing a piss poor job pulling it off.

I just can't get on board with the thought that she's doing something intentionally (maybe the "allies" part, which is a bit eyerolling to deliver to 4-5 y/os)
 
I can agree with this take. I understand what she's "trying" to do but I think she's doing a piss poor job pulling it off.

I just can't get on board with the thought that she's doing something intentionally (maybe the "allies" part, which is a bit eyerolling to deliver to 4-5 y/os)
How is seeking allies not intentional?

Seriously, this is what is so gobstoppingly frustrating about these conversations with you guys.

"This thing you are saying, I don't think it exists."

Dump tons of links to people doing the thing, stating that is their intent.

"Well, I don't think they were really trying to do what they explicitly stated they were doing."

Just be intellectually honest, there is nothing that anyone could possibly post that would get you to change your mind. He cannot even get you to change your mind about a specific instance where the person in question went out of their way to explain to you EXACTLY what their intent was and you still won't buy it even though that person is literally spelling it out for you.

You are being intentionally obtuse.
 
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I can agree with this take. I understand what she's "trying" to do but I think she's doing a piss poor job pulling it off.

I just can't get on board with the thought that she's doing something intentionally (maybe the "allies" part, which is a bit eyerolling to deliver to 4-5 y/os)
Whether intentional or not, she doesn’t understand how powerful she is by being the kids’ teacher. She’s their role model and everything she says is going straight into their lobes as FACT.
 
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Just be intellectually honest, there is nothing that anyone could possibly post that would get you to change your mind. He cannot even get you to change your mind about a specific instance where the person in question went out of their way to explain to you EXACTLY what their intent was and you still won't buy it even though that person is literally spelling it out for you.

You are being intentionally obtuse.

I don't which link we're talking about. The weird preschool teacher discussing "allies" or something else.

LIke I said, the way she's going about this, especially mentioning "allies", is frustratingly bad. But you continue to posit that her intention, though she's stated nothing of the sort, is to groom or convert kids to being gay. Everybody can call their own balls and strikes on that and we're just not going to agree on what her intentions might be.

If a Christian teacher in Syria was trying to explain why it's important to be tolerant of all religions while discussing the the historical subjugation of Christians in the Muslim world and mentioned they need allies, would they be seeking converts?

Where I think we can agree is that there should be NO discussion of sexual orientation in a preschool classroom. You can teach tolerance by talking about treating everyone fairly and with respect. You can explain that not everybody is the same or that they grew up differently, etc.
 
Whether intentional or not, she doesn’t understand how powerful she is by being the kids’ teacher. She’s their role model and everything she says is going straight into their lobes as FACT.
I think this is much closer to what's happening. She is unaware of how the message would be received by her audience. She might just be an idiot.
 
I think this is much closer to what's happening. She is unaware of how the message would be received by her audience. She might just be an idiot.
And imagine the tip-toeing required by administration to explain to her this isn’t acceptable for preschool. She has so many “cards” she can play. She’s been given all the power.
 
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So you are cool with a public school teacher turning her/his classroom into Sunday School in the name of tolerance I assume?

"Sorry that my whole tolerance conversation revolved around tolerating just this one specific viewpoint. Don't be mad at me, I am not dangerous. I am just failing in getting across the tolerance message I was going for."

You would buy that like I am buying your explanation.
I wouldn't have any problem with someone teaching that we shouldn't discriminate against Johnny because he is a Christian and that we should accept people of different religions or no religions at all because there are lots of different ways to to lead your life.
 
I wouldn't have any problem with someone teaching that we shouldn't discriminate against Johnny because he is a Christian and that we should accept people of different religions or no religions at all because there are lots of different ways to to lead your life.
God I wished i learned brevity as well as you did.
 
I think - to me - the assumption is that she’s talking to preschoolers about queerness or being queer. Her existence in the classroom isn’t problematic but her discussing it with 4 and unders is clearly a problem in confusing the kids. It positions queerness as something to aspire to as many kids want to be like their teachers at a young age.

She used activist language such as “Allies” and that tells me she is discussing it with the kids. And that’s not ok.
I guess now I'm confused about "something to aspire to". I would suspect that the teacher in question would reject that because it then also offers up an alternative of straightness as "something to aspire to" when what I get from her is that people should be accepted for and accept themselves for what they are. Is that a "something to aspire to" that you have a problem with?
 
And imagine the tip-toeing required by administration to explain to her this isn’t acceptable for preschool. She has so many “cards” she can play. She’s been given all the power.
Slightly different conversation but one that should be had as well.
 
I guess now I'm confused about "something to aspire to". I would suspect that the teacher in question would reject that because it then also offers up an alternative of straightness as "something to aspire to" when what I get from her is that people should be accepted for and accept themselves for what they are. Is that a "something to aspire to" that you have a problem with?
Think only b/c at a preschool level they have no idea what gay, straight, queer even means.

Sexuality isn't aspirational but her message should have, at a minimum, been balanced by saying "being straight is totally cool too" and when you think that in your head you start to get to realizing how discussing sexuality at all with preschoolers is kinda dumb.
 
God I wished i learned brevity as well as you did.
Haha! That may be the first time anyone has ever said that to me, so thanks. That's generally not a virtue I possess, but I appreciate your thoughtful perspective on this topic with Ranger and crazy.
 
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