I would really appreciate the board's thoughts on vaccine shaming. Prior to the vaccine being available, mask shaming was, and remains, a very prevalent issue throughout our society.
To be clear, I have zero issues with any of the available vaccines. I fully support each person's decision to either receive the vaccine or to not receive the vaccine. I will always be a firm believer in a person's healthcare decisions being a private matter and not something that is up for discussion unless that person so chooses.
Unfortunately for me, my wife's family has been pushing me and her to receive the vaccine. Upon learning that we are holding off for now, they were mortified and began lecturing us on why that is a terrible decision. Quite frankly, our decision is none of their business, just as their healthcare decisions are none of our business. We are the only family members remaining who have NOT received the vaccine. We do not have any individuals within either of our families who are in the at-risk category.
To be clear, we have gone out of our way to adhere to the health and safety protocols outlined by the CDC. We have also made a conscious effort to stay away from elderly people as well as those with pre-existing conditions. I'll gladly wear a mask and maintain social distancing when required.
Thoughts?
People are frustratingly complicated and senseless as it relates to COVID. The media has created permanent hysteria among people, even those that are vaccinated. I have always been in the vaccination camp, but I was never going to drive 4 hours to get a dose.
Needless to say, I unfortunately got COVID along with my wife a little over a month ago. We overcame it and our kids never got it (no symptoms and multiple negative tests - how that happens with little kids, who the F knows).
So, we've booked a nice family vacation in May and offered to see our families since we haven't seen them in over a year now. My wife's parents, despite being vaccinated told us they aren't going to get on a plane, eat in a restaurant, go to a gym, etc. for at least another year. Also, despite being vaccinated, they are not comfortable interacting with anyone else inside (meaning we cannot travel to them and stay with them). Interesting way to live your last good years and sad considering their grandkids are spread out and aren't getting any legitimate time with their grandparents.
In the same vein, my SIL said the same thing (re: travel, restaurants, group outings - even outdoors, etc.), despite being 30 years younger than her parents.
I have no problem with people being more cautious than normal and everyone is able to make their own choices, but at some point you have to question why they even got the vaccine. If you are going to stay in a bubble, let other people that want to get vaccinated and return to normalcy go in front of you.
Either way, it's pretty damn sad that despite a scientific miracle (vaccination development), proof of low risk (particularly to healthy and younger people), my kids won't have interacted with that side of the family for over two years in person. The amount that they change in weeks, let alone years, is remarkable. I wish her family would be willing to get over their irrational fears and witness some of it before it is too late.
A true f'in shame.