If what I read and have heard. Cousins wanted his son to attend his wedding. A already pissed off and dumped female used his child to get back at him. Cousins made some threats towards her over that. Any man who has been in the position were you have a child you love. And the mother you dont. Things like this happen. Not defending or saying its right. But saying. Before you judge Cousins and label him a thug. Think how you would respond to a person who you want nothing to do with, you give them a huge chunk of your hard earned money , and that person uses the one c thing you love more then anything in the world. Against you. Ive been there. My sons mother, when he was a child. Used him as a pay day. And would cause problems in my life by wanting to control mine and my sons relationship. The anger i had i cant even explain. I could see this women being vindictive and using their child to hurt Cousins on his wedding day. Put yourself in his position. One of the happiest days of your life. You want your son their. Probably already had plans for him to be their. Then this angry lady who already is pissed your marrying someone besides here. On the day before. Just decides she would stur shit up, and her alone says your son, the day before informs you your son. Cant come. Ya i could see any father saying crazy stuff. Its not right. But i can relate.