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Curious to see how this group answers.

Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

  • Yes

    Votes: 4 7.0%
  • No

    Votes: 53 93.0%

  • Total voters
    57
  • Poll closed .
I agree. I certainly have been wowed when looking at a younger woman's profile and thinking how fun that would be, but I also think how annoying they'll be to be around very often. Dating an older woman who's experiences more match my own, and who's smart and fun and knows shit just seems so much more appealing. And, they've generally dated enought assholes by then to know they appreciate a guy who is good to them and fun to be with. Now, having said that, I haven't really dated anyone very much younger than me either. Had a fling w a woman who had it pretty together that was like 35 (I'm 56), but she was still separated and figuring that out. But everyone I've dated for say a month or longer I believe has been within 10 years of my old ass.

Another extension of that discussion is the different cultures too. But that's for another day.
 
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Meh, after damned near 4 decades of courtship/marriage to the same lady I reckon that last thing I would want if I found myself single is fecking companionship. Dating? Hell I'd settle for a good steak, three fingers of scotch and Porn Hub.
 
Meh, after damned near 4 decades of courtship/marriage to the same lady I reckon that last thing I would want if I found myself single is fecking companionship. Dating? Hell I'd settle for a good steak, three fingers of scotch and Porn Hub.

A cow cant be chewing on the same patch of grass year after year...
 
If all these women find out you're comparing them to food and grass, your "juggling multiple women" problem might just take care of itself!
I have been purged by a few in the last 12 months - partly due to covid but they were basically tired of my nonsense. Been with a couple of them for at least 7-8 yrs. :confused:
 
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You said "your spouse" not "a spouse" so I can answer truthfully at the moment.

Now, 15 years ago......
 
I think the secret to a long marriage is to not let your wife join a bowling league. I had two friends whose wife divorced them after they started bowling. Either they met another guy at the bowling alley, or their co-bowlers convinced them they should make a change.
 
I think the secret to a long marriage is to not let your wife join a bowling league. I had two friends whose wife divorced them after they started bowling. Either they met another guy at the bowling alley, or their co-bowlers convinced them they should make a change.
I dated a girl once who is now gay. I mean she probably was then too. Huge missed opportunity during the middle phase.
 
I think the secret to a long marriage is to not let your wife join a bowling league. I had two friends whose wife divorced them after they started bowling. Either they met another guy at the bowling alley, or their co-bowlers convinced them they should make a change.
Once they start holding great big balls in their hands, most guys have no chance. Whole new meaning, to "can you pick up a spare?"
 
It's not 2D matrix, but at least 3D

hotness, craziness, smartness

My wife is hot, very uncrazy, and can answer at least half the questions on Jeopardy. I lucked out.
 
I dated a girl once who is now gay. I mean she probably was then too. Huge missed opportunity during the middle phase.
My friend told me about someone he knew who had dated a well-known basketball player and future women's coach. It was after they had dated that she became a lesbian. I told my friend that the other guy can always boast that he turned her into a lesbian!
 
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I want it awarded retroactively. my wife would be pretty pissed if I went gay now.
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best I can do on short notice!
 
You could always go with the "I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body" claim. That would check several boxes.
 
Been with my (much) better half going on 18 years now.

She's full blooded Italian.

There is ZERO chance I would ever risk stepping out on her. I value my life way to much to cross the psycho that could come out of my sweet lady, and she knows it.

There's one thing I've seen in my time with her, you don't mess with Italians.
 
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This is a fascinating TED TALK on infidelity if anyone enjoys these.

 
Meh, after damned near 4 decades of courtship/marriage to the same lady I reckon that last thing I would want if I found myself single is fecking companionship. Dating? Hell I'd settle for a good steak, three fingers of scotch and Porn Hub.
A golfer hit his tee shot into the woods. He found his ball and sitting next to it was a frog. The frog said, "if you pick me up and kiss me, I will change into a beautiful young woman and will give give you great sex for the rest of your life." The man threw the frog in his golf bag and zipped it up. His golfing companion asked, "why did you do that? The man replied, "At my age I'd rather have a talking frog".
 
This is a fascinating TED TALK on infidelity if anyone enjoys these.


When you put the data together, about 15-20% of married couples cheat. The rate of cheating increases with age for both married men and married women. In a study titled America's Generation Gap in Extramarital Affairs, 20% of older couples noted that they had cheated during their marriage.

So basically this group need to get on the bandwagon. Slower on the uptake.

Btw its 1 in 4 here in Singapore. I have personally dated a few married women. The women just wanted more intimacy and sex and I was a willing provider. That's the sort of giving fella I am.

Its 51% in Thailand. And the Scandis being Scandinavians, are pretty liberal about sex. Fewer hangups.

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