Law school...
Remember first year, when every student is concerned about their rank after 1st semester grades? Civ Pro, Crim Law, Contracts, etc.?
Well, nobody was expecting much from me. To be fair I was a horrible student. Rarely went to class. Always partying or playing b-ball. Yeah, that guy.
So a couple weeks before 1st semester finals I show up to a group study session which included a bunch of my friends...but a bunch of other, more studious types, too. I just thought I could show up and it would be no big deal.
Well.....no sooner than I sat down the leader of my group...still a good friend of mine to this day but at the time we had basically just met...says to me in front of everybody: "we'd just assume people who have nothing to offer the group not be a part of this, and we'd like you do leave."
Ouch.
So, I studied on my own...and when 1st semester grades came out I was ranked 19th out of 120....higher than all but a few in that group and way higher than any of my buddies in the group...a 3.3 GPA...all B+s.
Sounds melodramatic, but everything changed for me that day. However, some things got worse - namely class attendance, contempt for certain personality types, doing things conventionally, working with others, etc. lol