We're Doomed a/k/a I don't where else to put this

[larsIU]

Gotta love this thread.

We may not all agree about our politics, but when it comes to the tough job of raising children we have a great deal of empathy for each other.

If we stopped to think about it, whether on the left or right politically, we share a lot of important values.

It's why I love this board hoot and why I choose to interact with it they way I do. I don't bring strong opinions (except as it relates to mature women and @mcmurtry66 ) I bring a somewhat open mind. AS open as I can be at near 50.

 

[DANC]

I don't think it's dysfunctional for someone who has means to assist their parents that need help, to do so.

I think it dysfunctional when there is an expectation that the child live at home, often via a lot of guilt trips, emotional abuse, etc... At the request/demand of the parent so as to support them.

OK, that's fair. Not how you presented it at first, but I agree with this explanation.

 

[DANC]

Also I'll say in the example I mentioned above with the furnace... But also saw this same thing from a mother of an ex girlfriend. The parents came from very conformable upbringing... The grandparents in both cases were fairly well off but the parents blew it all and were still attempting to live lifestyles they were long used to. To the point they couldn't cover basic living costs without hitting up their kids in their early 20s for money. Fkn boomers.

I'm a boomer, jackhole. lol And we live a helluva lot more conservatively than my millennial daughter and son-in-law.

 

[twenty02]

If we stopped to think about it, whether on the left or right politically, we share a lot of important values.

Agree...

 

[UncleMark]

I'm a boomer, jackhole. lol And we live a helluva lot more conservatively than my millennial daughter and son-in-law.

Yeah, thanks to @JamieDimonsBalls and @BadWakeboarder.

 

[hoosboot]

Yep - her childhood home is probably nice and she probably posts on social media like it's her place. And there is definitely a stigma to living way out in the Inland Empire. Not saying I agree with it, but it's there.

All depends on where in the IE. Some places are nice. And some...

 

[BradStevens]

Yeah but you're a good parent and I'm sure your daughter actually likes you deep down. Some people do have very dysfunctional parents that actually expect their kids to provide for them. Knew this guy from college that had some real piece of work parents that expected him to move home after graduation because they couldn't afford their own lifestyle. Got so bad they couldn't pay for a new furnace when it broke and he had to buy it.

That's my retirement plan you're busting on there, twenty. Watch it.

 

[BradStevens]

I don't know, man. The way you're sounding, I'm waiting for you to next break out with something like,

"And their music? You can't even understand the words that they're singing!"

I'm generally much more impressed by Gen Z kids than I am Boomers. The world has changed A LOT and the generations change alongside that. The many mistakes I made as an 18-22 year old would completely derail my life if I made them as a teenager today. We somehow simultaneously expect way too much and way too little of kids these days.🤷‍♂️

Their music ****ing sucks, hoosboot. God awful. Putrid.

 

[BradStevens]

Priorities:

Wife/Daughter
Disc Golf
Work

Yes, you are correct, although 2 is really a 1a if you know what i mean.

Wait. Where in the hell is the WCBC on that list????

 

[hoosboot]

Their music ****ing sucks, hoosboot. God awful. Putrid.

I bet you're on Team Drake, too.

 

[BadWakeboarder]

Their music ****ing sucks, hoosboot. God awful. Putrid.

Some of it’s really good. Kendrick, Caamp, Zack Bryan…all so good.

The pop is undeniably bad. Putrid. God awful.

 

[hoosboot]

Some of it’s really good. Kendrick, Caamp, Zack Bryan…all so good.

The pop is undeniably bad. Putrid. God awful.

Love Caamp. Just be careful around Brad. He's on Team Drake. 😬

 

[mattndallas]

Some of it’s really good. Kendrick, Caamp, Zack Bryan…all so good.

The pop is undeniably bad. Putrid. God awful.

Saw Caamp at Bluebird for the first time in March 2019. From there they became festival favorites. Saw them at Shakey Knees and then Forecastle. Hung out w their parents backstage at Forecastle...they were just flabbergasted by the success.

Great band and good dudes...despite the fact they're kinda Buckeyes. 😄

 

[DANC]

Yeah, thanks to @JamieDimonsBalls and @BadWakeboarder.

I hope they raise the SS tax ceiling just for them

 

[DANC]

Hung out w their parents backstage at Forecastle...they were just flabbergasted by the success.

Does anything say 21 Century like meeting the bands PARENTS backstage? lol

 

[BradStevens]

Love Caamp. Just be careful around Brad. He's on Team Drake. 😬

 

[VanPastorMan]

These kids are a crap shoot. Yesterday mine tells me we have to hit the sporting goods store. Words she’s used before but never in that order. I assume for a hoodie. I go for what? I start lacrosse next week and need to get everything 🤣🤣.

Fine. We’re leaving the tags on all of the gear

It sure is expensive to help your kids find interests. I would say my biggest expense to my parents was the trumpet they bought me in 7th grade. I paid for my own colleges perhaps they got off cheap.

 

[mcmurtry66]

It sure is expensive to help your kids find interests. I would say my biggest expense to my parents was the trumpet they bought me in 7th grade. I paid for my own colleges perhaps they got off cheap.

Yes sir. Me too. I was cheap. I got this for my birthday every year. That was it. Exactly this. And back then youth sports sponsors were actual sponsors. Soccer was free. And it was actually select. You made the team or you went home. One team per age group