I've not not been reading everything here close enough to know your reference, but generally i think you hit on a good point. Pro-choice advocates have been too dismissive of any other positions (i know women who wanted to join the pussy hat march but were excluded due to an abortion litmus test).The best I've noticed here, there is ONE "radical" pro lifer and even he admitted that there is room for negotiation.
He calmly, as an adult, stated his personal preference and why, and then agreed to something that should be a nice middle ground, for anyone on the opposite position that wasn't just a simple fascist in pussy clothing.
Now they need to realize this is a state election issue, but they're distracted with protests and revenge votes.