I won't vote for Trump, and I didn't vote for him in '16 or '20. Of course I won't vote for Harris either.
But you want another piece of anecdotal evidence? My mother, who is 92 years old, has voted for the Republican candidate in every election in forever. Local, State, Federal...straight R. She's not voting for Trump this year. It will mark the first time she's not voted for the Republican nominee in what...70 years? If you guys have lost my mother, you've lost a lot more than her. You're just too stubborn to see it.
Just like Donald Trump.