I'm not a douchebag . . . but there are times that I am an asshole, no question about that. If that makes you feel good, I'll do it more often.
You gotta take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else. I don't think it's cowardly to do so* . . . but then you don't have to respond immediately either. I saw the exchange you had with CO about the hearsay rule last night, and slept on it . . . that exchange came up as part of my initial reading of the board this morning, so I thought I might see if I could shed some light on it . . . . I had the energy and time to have a fairly reasonable perspective, and to do a fairly reasonable analysis - for this board anyway - to establish how bullshitty CO's post was, and I'm glad that I did.
And in a bit I'm going to the range to see whether I can hit this new driver in my bag . . . the board can wait for any corrections I can offer to CO's obfuscations.
[on edit]: This is as good of an opportunity as I'll ever get to reference Kierkegaard's "As Yourself" essay in his
Works of Love. Too many times we think it's all on us, and only us - individually - to fight all of these battles alone. But those "throwaway" words at the end of the Great Commandment come back to put all that into some relief - perspective that provides relief from the burdens that come with the admonition to love your neighbor - so that you accept your limitations and do what you can, as you can. Besides, I got your back. And if I don't, the Debate Team, or wiede, or Ranger, or twenty, or some other poster, will . . . .