I have three kids that I have put through Columbia, Cornell (well, two more years to go), and UCF (in-state tuition for one of them, albeit on 6-year plan!)
I started saving like crazy, from the day that they were born, told them they could go to the best schools they could get into, and told them that they would graduate without a penny of student loan debt as long as they worked hard. Every bonus check my wife and I got went to college funds. More went there than into 401K, even. The small money from parents estate: all saved.
I kept my word and it wasn't easy. One year my wife and I paid $150,000 in tuition & fees. We both are, even now, driving cars past 300,000 miles to save money. 15 years ago I bought half the house that the banks said that i could afford. We always vacationed on a budget.
All three kids are grateful for what we did for them, since their friends all have massive debt.
On on hand, I feel sorry for those kids, and it would be nice if they didn't have all of that debt.
But then I think that 25 years of frugal living made it possible for my kids to not face any of that, and it does seem a bit unfair if other families who didn't buckle down like we did are bailed out. So I am a bit torn.