Regarding being more like Sweden, I thought that for a long time as well, but I'm become more sceptical of that over the last few years. A couple of examples of why:
I think I linked a Freakonomics podcast a couple of months ago that showed just how hard it is to make intra-nation comparisons like that. It doesn't work really well, according to a lot of "experts"

they interviewed.
The U.S. Is Just Different — So Let’s Stop Pretending We’re Not - Freakonomics
freakonomics.com
In another vein, Russ Roberts of EconTalk had frequent guest Michael Munger on talking about tradeoffs and the free market. He said the problem with the type of thinking above is that we don't encapsulate all the benefits we get from the thing we want changed (another example of unintended consequences). We think we can keep everything the same, get all the benefits from the way the system is now, but just tweak that one little thing without it changing a lot of other benefits (I admit I do this all the time and I thought their discussion of the problem a really great reminder/corrective). He says it better if you want to listen:
Author and economist Michael Munger of Duke University talks with EconTalk host Russ Roberts about the virtues–and the flaws–of free markets. Munger says the best argument for a free market approach is not that it’s perfect but that it’s better than anything else we’ve been able to come up with...
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I do agree wholeheartedly though that we should at least look at what other nations or cultures do, compare it to ours, and ask which values we want and don't want. That's helpful and healthy and those who shut down that conversation are generally not very deep thinkers.