Please. These kids are clowns. It’s 50 degrees and raining here. Daughter texts me can you drive me to school. Yep. Mom is gone to work. Daughter comes out of the house in shorts Kendall Jenner would be too shy to wear to Coachella. I bust out laughing. Don’t even get in the car.We are never going to be able to shelter our kids completely, but anything within reason that we can do to keep these kids away from online anonymous assholes is okay by me...
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My kids getting phones after middle school had NOTHING to do with fears of school shootings.The parents are being ridiculous. Somebody needs to get through to them that little Johnny and Janey aren't dying tomorrow at school.
How did we ever do it when we were young?My kids getting phones after middle school had NOTHING to do with fears of school shootings.
There were multiple incidents of school busses breaking down and we had to find out where to go to pick them up.
There were afterschool activities with uncertain pickup times.
There were afterschool bus trips for sports away games and we needed to coordinate pick-ups.
The craziness was eventually multiplied by having THREE kids, all with overlapping afterschool activities. I remember times where I would pick up kid A, meet my wife in a parking lot and give her kid A, then go to pick up kid B, while she went to go pick up kid C and drop off kid A at another activity, such as scouts.
I likely agree although paper still allows for less distraction (unless it's a pupose built e reader that doesn't have apps flashing and banner and notifications and blah blah blah on it).If you compare passive reading on paper with passive reading on a screen, I think you are correct. But with a screen you can include active reader participation with comprehension exercises along with reading.
My parents said that none of us could do any afterschool stuff. No scouts. No sports. No nothing, until we could drive ourselves. We had hours of farm chores to do on our dairy farm.How did we ever do it when we were young?
You kids either have a phone ot they don't. You can't make it dematerialize in specific hours.Again, my concern is during school hours not so much before or after. That's another topic entirely.
I think we should move to a hard and fast rule that kids have to drop off their cell phones when they enter a school and pick them up as they leave.
Ok. Your childhood is different than most of us here and current day. I think it worked out for you pretty well though.My parents said that none of us could do any afterschool stuff. No scouts. No sports. No nothing, until we could drive ourselves. We had hours of farm chores to do on our dairy farm.
You kids either have a phone ot they don't. You can't make it dematerialize in specific hours.
I love the idea of dropping off the phones somewhere during school hours, or (as schools did in my area) leaving it to each teacher to impound them during their class period. It works.
An interesting movie about this on Netflix called The Social Dilemma.We are never going to be able to shelter our kids completely, but anything within reason that we can do to keep these kids away from online anonymous assholes is okay by me...
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Have I ever told the story of opening my 2nd daughters 3rd grade school picture package. Great picture of her wearing Mardi Gra beeds. The effing photographer and the damn teacher must have be dying laughing knowing what would happen 6 weeks later. When her mother saw the pic. This girl is so much like her father. She's 30 now. Still the same.Please. These kids are clowns. It’s 50 degrees and raining here. Daughter texts me can you drive me to school. Yep. Mom is gone to work. Daughter comes out of the house in shorts Kendall Jenner would be too shy to wear to Coachella. I bust out laughing. Don’t even get in the car.
Comes back out in a hoodie and baggy sweats. Those shorts hidden in her backpack I’m sure