Well, everything does not equal everything, and you know that.Regarding the affects of anti-racist policy, I have a lot of skin in the game--my kids' education and the tens-of-thousands of dollars I spend in property taxes for a school that used to have honors courses and now does not and the parochial school I now might have to send my kids to so they can get the educational opportunities I never had.
So if we are going to advance ad hominem attacks and operate under an assumption that only people directly affected by certain polices are allowed to comment, maybe those without school-aged children need to silence themselves regarding school policies and accept the viewpoints of those of us with children in schools that are instituting these policies, since these others have no "skin in the game" ? *
*I don't believe that to be true, but based on your reasoning, it would apply.
That being said, sending your kids to parochial school is not a silver bullet. There's a reason the per pupil expenditure is so low, so if your kid has an IEP, good luck with all that, from what I hear.
And not to get too anecdotal, but a long time ago, I heard a story from a high school football coach at a public school about a football player at the neighboring Catholic school who was "expelled" the second semester of his senior year, and ended up at the public school. Pretty convenient timing. The offense wasn't that bad, but, they had used him for his talent for 3.5 years, and only then decided to lower the hammer.
I realize this story is low on relevance to the topic, but I always found it interesting.