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I know this doesn’t sound like a topic we would normally chat about. It’s certainly not a “manly’ choice of conversation. As a 51 year old man, I think I’ve been wrong about how I’ve taken care of my skin. As long as I’ve been an adult I’ve for the most part ignored the warnings. My wife, a doctor has always encouraged me to wear sunscreen and a hat. Maybe 50% of the time during the sunnier months I complied. The problem is I do it, but never re-apply. The result now is the wrinkles are showing at an early age but more concerning are the sun spots that have begun to appear on my face. I think as men we don’t want to be told what to do and especially by women. I can now say after years of playing sports outside and now watching my kids play there’s probably a good chance I will have to deal with skin cancer. Was it worth it? I guess I’ll find out.

The point is as men we don’t take care of ourselves enough. We don’t go to the doctor enough, we don’t check ourselves routinely for testicular cancer, we don’t get colonoscopies when told. I’m sure there are exceptions among us. If not for ourselves we owe it to our wives and kids. Perhaps we can support one another and even share stories that might convince us hard headed guys we don’t know everything.

It might be too late for MY skin, but perhaps it’s not for yours.
 
I know this doesn’t sound like a topic we would normally chat about. It’s certainly not a “manly’ choice of conversation. As a 51 year old man, I think I’ve been wrong about how I’ve taken care of my skin. As long as I’ve been an adult I’ve for the most part ignored the warnings. My wife, a doctor has always encouraged me to wear sunscreen and a hat. Maybe 50% of the time during the sunnier months I complied. The problem is I do it, but never re-apply. The result now is the wrinkles are showing at an early age but more concerning are the sun spots that have begun to appear on my face. I think as men we don’t want to be told what to do and especially by women. I can now say after years of playing sports outside and now watching my kids play there’s probably a good chance I will have to deal with skin cancer. Was it worth it? I guess I’ll find out.

The point is as men we don’t take care of ourselves enough. We don’t go to the doctor enough, we don’t check ourselves routinely for testicular cancer, we don’t get colonoscopies when told. I’m sure there are exceptions among us. If not for ourselves we owe it to our wives and kids. Perhaps we can support one another and even share stories that might convince us hard headed guys we don’t know everything.

It might be too late for MY skin, but perhaps it’s not for yours.
RFK says just chug some cod liver oil and ivermectin and you’ll be fine
 
I know this doesn’t sound like a topic we would normally chat about. It’s certainly not a “manly’ choice of conversation. As a 51 year old man, I think I’ve been wrong about how I’ve taken care of my skin. As long as I’ve been an adult I’ve for the most part ignored the warnings. My wife, a doctor has always encouraged me to wear sunscreen and a hat. Maybe 50% of the time during the sunnier months I complied. The problem is I do it, but never re-apply. The result now is the wrinkles are showing at an early age but more concerning are the sun spots that have begun to appear on my face. I think as men we don’t want to be told what to do and especially by women. I can now say after years of playing sports outside and now watching my kids play there’s probably a good chance I will have to deal with skin cancer. Was it worth it? I guess I’ll find out.

The point is as men we don’t take care of ourselves enough. We don’t go to the doctor enough, we don’t check ourselves routinely for testicular cancer, we don’t get colonoscopies when told. I’m sure there are exceptions among us. If not for ourselves we owe it to our wives and kids. Perhaps we can support one another and even share stories that might convince us hard headed guys we don’t know everything.

It might be too late for MY skin, but perhaps it’s not for yours.
One’s skin reflects the condition of one’s microbiome.
 
I know this doesn’t sound like a topic we would normally chat about. It’s certainly not a “manly’ choice of conversation. As a 51 year old man, I think I’ve been wrong about how I’ve taken care of my skin. As long as I’ve been an adult I’ve for the most part ignored the warnings. My wife, a doctor has always encouraged me to wear sunscreen and a hat. Maybe 50% of the time during the sunnier months I complied. The problem is I do it, but never re-apply. The result now is the wrinkles are showing at an early age but more concerning are the sun spots that have begun to appear on my face. I think as men we don’t want to be told what to do and especially by women. I can now say after years of playing sports outside and now watching my kids play there’s probably a good chance I will have to deal with skin cancer. Was it worth it? I guess I’ll find out.

The point is as men we don’t take care of ourselves enough. We don’t go to the doctor enough, we don’t check ourselves routinely for testicular cancer, we don’t get colonoscopies when told. I’m sure there are exceptions among us. If not for ourselves we owe it to our wives and kids. Perhaps we can support one another and even share stories that might convince us hard headed guys we don’t know everything.

It might be too late for MY skin, but perhaps it’s not for yours.
Yes and no. Start with three sessions of Microneedling. That will help some. Then follow this routine. Hyaluronic Acid. You can use it liberally. Morning and night. At night retinol. It’s harsh. Start very slowly until your skin gets used to it. In the morning. Peptides. Drink tons of water.

I loved Dave Navarro’s take on cancer. He was a chain smoker and they told him it increases the chances of cancer. Eh. You only live once. I’ll do what I want. Oh and it gives you wrinkles.

He quit the next day.

Best of luck on your skincare journey. Consistency is the key. Give your products the time they need to work
 
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Yes and no. Start with three sessions of Microneedling. That will help some. Then follow this routine. Hyaluronic Acid. You can use it liberally. Morning and night. At night retinol. It’s harsh. Start very slowly until your skin gets used to it. In the morning. Peptides. Drink tons of water.

I loved Dave Navarro’s take on cancer. He was a chain smoker and they told him it increases the chances of cancer. Eh. You only live once. I’ll do what I want. Oh and it gives you wrinkles.

He quit the next day.

Best of luck on your skincare journey. Consistency is the key. Give your products the time they need to work
Interesting.....these are all remedies I'm not familiar with. Curious are these prescribed by doctors or something you've picked up on from other sources?
 
Interesting.....these are all remedies I'm not familiar with. Curious are these prescribed by doctors or something you've picked up on from other sources?
Many hours of instagram research and a teenager daughter. Hey bro. Can I order this from Sephora. She knows.

It’s interesting having a teen and preschooler. The can yous are very different

Pre - can you play with me.
Teen - can you buy me. Can you take me. Can you make me
 
I know this doesn’t sound like a topic we would normally chat about. It’s certainly not a “manly’ choice of conversation. As a 51 year old man, I think I’ve been wrong about how I’ve taken care of my skin. As long as I’ve been an adult I’ve for the most part ignored the warnings. My wife, a doctor has always encouraged me to wear sunscreen and a hat. Maybe 50% of the time during the sunnier months I complied. The problem is I do it, but never re-apply. The result now is the wrinkles are showing at an early age but more concerning are the sun spots that have begun to appear on my face. I think as men we don’t want to be told what to do and especially by women. I can now say after years of playing sports outside and now watching my kids play there’s probably a good chance I will have to deal with skin cancer. Was it worth it? I guess I’ll find out.

The point is as men we don’t take care of ourselves enough. We don’t go to the doctor enough, we don’t check ourselves routinely for testicular cancer, we don’t get colonoscopies when told. I’m sure there are exceptions among us. If not for ourselves we owe it to our wives and kids. Perhaps we can support one another and even share stories that might convince us hard headed guys we don’t know everything.

It might be too late for MY skin, but perhaps it’s not for yours.
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I love my 14 year old daughter, but there isn’t a day that goes by I don’t call her an asshole. Mind you we have a special kind of relationship but she’s just so mean to her sisters and rude to my wife and I.
Mine’s 14 1/2. Sweetest, most caring, loving, FUNNIEST, most wonderful human being I’ve ever encountered. An angel from the heavens. Turned 14 and like a different person. Mean little bitch. One of my best friends teaches at her school. She said it’s the age. They’re all horrible and this is the worst time.

Stay single kings!
 
Daughter 3 is now 14. I can confirm that this is a terrible age for mean, snotty teenage girls. The other two grew out of it in short order. I’m assuming this too shall pass.
 
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My daughter #3 who is also the youngest is nothing like your average teenage girl who sits watching and making Tik Tok videos. She actually despises all of them. She plays a mean bass guitar, loves watching sports with me (she does push ups everytime IU football scores a TD), she plays softball and you guys might remember she took up girls wrestling this year. So yea, she's a cool ass girl (may as well been the son I never had) but that damn age has made her a complete A-hole. I can't wait until she matures a bit.
 
My daughter #3 who is also the youngest is nothing like your average teenage girl who sits watching and making Tik Tok videos. She actually despises all of them. She plays a mean bass guitar, loves watching sports with me (she does push ups everytime IU football scores a TD), she plays softball and you guys might remember she took up girls wrestling this year. So yea, she's a cool ass girl (may as well been the son I never had) but that damn age has made her a complete A-hole. I can't wait until she matures a bit.
i love how she texts now.

Monday 9;28 pm
hey did you get all of your assignments in? i don't want to read on the portal that you didn't turn in your stuff. also it's going to be cold. dress appropriately in the morning. knock em dead. i love you
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Tues 4:57 pm
can you drive me and harper and stella to sushi ai. now. and i need money or a card
 
Just use a face moisturizer with sunscreen. Where sunscreen when you are outside. Drink a lot of water.

*I also drink a lot of beer and bourbon, but can’t speak to the health affects on the skin.
 
i love how she texts now.

Monday 9;28 pm
hey did you get all of your assignments in? i don't want to read on the portal that you didn't turn in your stuff. also it's going to be cold. dress appropriately in the morning. knock em dead. i love you
Read

Tues 4:57
can you drive me and harper and stella to sushi ai. now. and i need money or a card
Kids these days have to clue how to make a phone call. They have fancy phones but never use the call part. It's like the only way they know how to communicate is throush text, IG or Snap. God forbid you ask them to call someplace for information. It's like they're scared to talk to a human being. The people skills for kids these day's are horrible.
 
Kids these days have to clue how to make a phone call. They have fancy phones but never use the call part. It's like the only way they know how to communicate is throush text, IG or Snap. God forbid you ask them to call someplace for information. It's like they're scared to talk to a human being. The people skills for kids these day's are horrible.
yeah but i fck with mine. i get a text and then i face time her back. and i won't respnd to the text. just keep trying to facetime her
 
Just use a face moisturizer with sunscreen. Where sunscreen when you are outside. Drink a lot of water.

*I also drink a lot of beer and bourbon, but can’t speak to the health affects on the skin.

Daughter 3 is now 14. I can confirm that this is a terrible age for mean, snotty teenage girls. The other two grew out of it in short order. I’m assuming this too shall pass.
Water is much easier to drink throughout the day. I fill up my bottle at least 2-3 times a day. But who carries their sunscreen with them all day and reapplies it more than the one time before they leave the house?
 
Just use a face moisturizer with sunscreen. Where sunscreen when you are outside. Drink a lot of water.

*I also drink a lot of beer and bourbon, but can’t speak to the health affects on the skin.
Never met an irishman?

 
yeah but i fck with mine. i get a text and then i face time her back. and i won't respnd to the text. just keep trying to facetime her
I noticed this more during covid when the kids were using facetime more often and during online classes. The boys would often times not show their entire face. You'd basically see just their forehead and hair. It was the oddest damn thing, but then I noticed it wasn't just one kid, it was most of the boys. It's like they've become more self-conscious than we ever were. I think teenage boys might be a lot more f*cked up than we were. With all the social media and seeing pictures of male influencers they care a little too much about their bodies and looks. We were kinda of disgusting back in the day.
 
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I noticed this more during covid when the kids were using facetime more often and during online classes. The boys would often times not show their entire face. You'd basically see just their forehead and hair. It was the oddest damn thing, but then I noticed it wasn't just one kid, it was most of the boys. It's like they've become more self-conscious than we ever were. I think teenage boys might be a lot more f*cked up than we were. With all the social media and seeing pictures of male influencers they care a little too much about their bodies and looks. We were kinda of disgusting back in the day.
She’s in 8th grade and we’re running into some crazy shit already. One of her teachers is a lifelong friend. Her husband too. Very close friends. They have three kids. Her son is the same age. She said he was at a party and they were drinking. And she condemned it but was way different than I’d have been. I’d have been apoplectic. We’re entering all that world I guess. Where now not only kids but dealing with parents and how they handle things differently
 
Water is much easier to drink throughout the day. I fill up my bottle at least 2-3 times a day. But who carries their sunscreen with them all day and reapplies it more than the one time before they leave the house?
I keep a sunscreen in my truck.
 
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