And I dont think Vance was referring to as being so---Just a suggestion. TOact as if he's implying hving grandma/grandpa, etc...watch your children, being THE solution, is being naive.What you and the rest of your family is doing is commendable, and commonplace. However, it's not possible (or practical) for many. The small town Indiana life isn't universal.
IT is commonplace, though as you said. I know many who use family as a PART of reducing day care cost.