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Serious question for Pro Life folks

Only 34% of Americans (give or take) believe that abortion should occur in the second trimester. Even less believe they should occur in the third. Why would anyone who is mostly anti-abortion negotiate an additional 5 to 8 weeks (or more) away from their position when a solid 2/3's of the country do not support that?

The public at large has already arrived at the current compromise between the two extremes and that compromise draws the line in and around the first trimester.
Polls show a majority of the country was against Roe and Casey being overturned.

Why not just draw a line down the middle and be done with it? Both sides get half of what they want.
 
I am not willing to compromise at that point, I will understand if my representatives in some areas choose to compromise at that level though. Something is better than nothing and if you got that something in a place like California, that would be a hell of a start. To me this is a long game. It took 50 years to overturn Roe and 30 to get rid of Casey. It takes awhile to get the default position shifted. In some areas the long game needs to be played and in others it does not.

I still think that rape, incest, and life of mother are the only 3 reasons and that the first two of those should be tightly controlled sometime within that 12 to 15 week period.
What about fetal viability and extreme defects detected during the 20 week testing?
 
How do people prove they are raped now? Since I know these are meant to be gotcha questions, how about when they show for an approved abortion and report it was because of rape it triggers police involvement. And if they are found to be lying after the fact, a penalty exists for that.

Yes. And I know that always follows with "women are afraid to report and social stigma" and what have you, but I am on the punish the rapists train as well. You can add that train to "baby daddies" having to actually be fathers if not in person, in economic terms.
We’re starting off topic, but I can tell you from firsthand experience that sex crimes are VERY difficult to prosecute. People walk all the time. If there were a penalty for the woman for a NG verdict, that’s pretty tough.

And you’d very rarely be able to prove there wasn’t a rape either. It sounds good but isn’t terribly practical.
 
That's where I'm having my disconnect though. Particularly while I agree that life isn't always absolutes, I feel that in situations of Life & Death, it's really an either/or situation.

It sounds like, in the case of the rape exception, "mother's mental health" is sufficient to commit what the Pro-Life side says is equivalent, if not out & out, murder.

I'm Pro-Choice AF, so I'm okay with a woman making her decisions with her own body. But it still seems incongruous.
Well how's that either/or situation working out? Not so good in my opinion. Coincidently on the flip side the "my body my choice" conveniently leaves out the body inside yours. And it's not just the female's choice, it's also the babies, and the father and your god.
Hey I appreciate your discussion on this and what seems like mixed signals from some on the right. But I get just as many if not more questions on the lefts behavior. In the end it's about killing kids and saving some but not all. This just might be the best possible solution.
 
Well how's that either/or situation working out? Not so good in my opinion. Coincidently on the flip side the "my body my choice" conveniently leaves out the body inside yours. And it's not just the female's choice, it's also the babies, and the father and your god.
Hey I appreciate your discussion on this and what seems like mixed signals from some on the right. But I get just as many if not more questions on the lefts behavior. In the end it's about killing kids and saving some but not all. This just might be the best possible solution.

Sedasky, appreciate your post but wonder how politicians write abortion laws about "kids" when the question about when a potential "kid" becomes a "kid" depends on a variety of factors.

Factors which include political party, church affiliation, gender, age, life experiences, and the list goes on.

Of the factors, party affiliation upsets me the most. Decisions which are so controversial and affect lives so profoundly should be above politics in my perfect world.
 
First trimester and life on mother or some medical issue with baby after first trimester is where I think most people are at.

I may be missing something but it doesn’t seem that’s what democrats are saying. Abortion right up to and including delivery is what I hear from them.
No you don't hear that.
 
He relied on a report by the Indianapolis Star, which while they stand by their story, will not provide more details. This is a very difficult story to check. The Star is firmly on the record as backing the account, but obtaining documents or other confirmation is all but impossible without details that would identify the locality where the rape occurred.

A Gannett spokeswoman provided a comment from Bro Krift, the newspaper’s executive editor: “The facts and sourcing about people crossing state lines into Indiana, including the 10-year-old girl, for abortions are clear. We have no additional comment at this time.”

Biden also prefaced the remark saying "it's been reported that..."

Would it be preferable that politicians demand a higher level of proof? yes.


Well, you know, that pesky Indianapolis Star has always been such a radical leftwing newspaper. Who could ever trust the Indianapolis Star to accurately reflect the views of a 70% red state? LOL.
 
A question for you and everyone else. How does a person prove they were raped and who makes that determination? How long would it take to make that determination?

There are already grey areas with this issue. And does everyone expect every raped person to admit they were raped by X person or their uncle?
Here's a hint: a pregnant 10-year-old girl in Ohio has always been raped.

If you don't understand this, then ask your mom.
 
IMHO, life begins at conception, or even before if you believe “God had a plan for us all”. There is no justifiable reason for abortion to exist, but I’ll grant an exception for rape or incest in the 1st trimester, or for severe deformity of the fetus up to 24 weeks. I don’t agree with it, but if that would put the political issue to bed (which it wouldn’t), I could live with it as a political solution.

I would still grieve for the fetus/baby that was aborted due to rape that may have grown up to be a great civil rights leader, the woman that cured cancer, or just a good person.
 
IMHO, life begins at conception, or even before if you believe “God had a plan for us all”. There is no justifiable reason for abortion to exist, but I’ll grant an exception for rape or incest in the 1st trimester, or for severe deformity of the fetus up to 24 weeks. I don’t agree with it, but if that would put the political issue to bed (which it wouldn’t), I could live with it as a political solution.

I would still grieve for the fetus/baby that was aborted due to rape that may have grown up to be a great civil rights leader, the woman that cured cancer, or just a good person.
With that said, I would be all for flooding the system with whatever amount of funds it takes to support these children and the single mothers. The economic priorities would change. Churches would lose their tax exempt status, multi millionaires would be cited for even thinking aloud about the lazy taking their hard earned money. Socialism, to a degree, would be real.
 
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IMHO, life begins at conception, or even before if you believe “God had a plan for us all”. There is no justifiable reason for abortion to exist, but I’ll grant an exception for rape or incest in the 1st trimester, or for severe deformity of the fetus up to 24 weeks. I don’t agree with it, but if that would put the political issue to bed (which it wouldn’t), I could live with it as a political solution.

I would still grieve for the fetus/baby that was aborted due to rape that may have grown up to be a great civil rights leader, the woman that cured cancer, or just a good person.
What if you don’t believe in God? Why does your religion take precedence? Jewish and Muslim religions don’t believe life begins until the first breath is taken.
 
What if you don’t believe in God? Why does your religion take precedence? Jewish and Muslim religions don’t believe life begins until the first breath is taken.
Yeah, I don’t claim to have all the answers or even if my opinion is correct. It’s just my opinion, and why this issue is so difficult to find a solution. I do respect other religions and women’s rights. And there’s a side of me that believes a woman has the right to make the choice, and deal with the religious (or non religious) aspect of it in their own private way.
 
What if you don’t believe in God? Why does your religion take precedence? Jewish and Muslim religions don’t believe life begins until the first breath is taken.
Science doesn’t support that position. Are you supporting the elected Democrats’ de facto position of no abortion restrictions until birth?
 
My hangup on putting time frames on when its acceptable and when it isn't...is there a definable day when a fetus becomes a person? Some think conception, some think when the heart starts beating, some think when the brain is developed... to me its an incredibly difficult grey area to decide on and navigate through.

that’s a huge part of the issue. Another question I can’t figure out is, how is a “person” defined? If a fetus isn’t going to survive but is carried to term, was it ever a person? I always think of a person as self-sustaining, but realize others don’t
 
The Democrat's de facto position is restoration of Roe, as it was being interpreted for 50 years, which carries with it many restrictions. You know that, though, and are apparently being willfully dense.
No it isn't. You've not paid attention to the votes of elected Democrats over the past three decades. They vote against any and every restriction on abortion at any point in the pregnancy. This is a fact.
 
What if you don’t believe in God? Why does your religion take precedence? Jewish and Muslim religions don’t believe life begins until the first breath is taken.
While it makes sense to take that approach from a religious standpoint, personally, I am not religious so the question I have is what is humane? Too much emphasis to me is put on whether a fetus is a person. Because a dog is not a person, do we not have to treat it humanely? Is it ok to kill it or cause it to suffer if it isn’t wanted? The fact is that at @ 20 weeks a fetus will feel pain, so is it ok to inflict suffering on it, or any living creature due to inconvenience, albeit a significant one?
 
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No it isn't. You've not paid attention to the votes of elected Democrats over the past three decades. They vote against any and every restriction on abortion at any point in the pregnancy. This is a fact.
Probably because this is the first step of taking away more rights from the pro-rights party. Don’t they say the same about guns?
 
Well, you know, that pesky Indianapolis Star has always been such a radical leftwing newspaper. Who could ever trust the Indianapolis Star to accurately reflect the views of a 70% red state? LOL.
The Star has been owned by Gannet since 2000. Gannet is not a right-oriented media company by any measure.

BTW, Gannet lost a net $119,000,000 USD in 2019.....

A winner for sure.
 
Fellow lefties, if you’re not going to contribute to this please just move along.

There is an article in the Star this morning about polling of Hoosiers about what, if any, exceptions to an abortion ban they’d agree with. As is common, rape, incest, and life of the mother are three that pill well. Others, not so much.

My question for you all is how do you or others you know reconcile those positions? Like, it seems contradictory to say that an embryo is a life and all life is precious and should be protected while also being agreeable to those exceptions. Maybe less so for life of the mother, but if they’re both lives, what makes one more valuable than the other?

I’ll hang up and listen.
Is bacteria found on Mars 'life'?

'Science' says so...

But there's a 'question' whether a viable human baby is life?

Have you had a chance to show your children an abortion video and then explain why you support abortion?
 
that’s a huge part of the issue. Another question I can’t figure out is, how is a “person” defined? If a fetus isn’t going to survive but is carried to term, was it ever a person? I always think of a person as self-sustaining, but realize others don’t
It is probably more accurate to think of "personhood" as something measured on a continuum, not a binary state of being.

The same could be said for whether "a life" is deserving of state protection. Put another way, something can be a life and not be a person. Or something can be a life and deserving of some govt. protections, but not all.
 
No it isn't. You've not paid attention to the votes of elected Democrats over the past three decades. They vote against any and every restriction on abortion at any point in the pregnancy. This is a fact.
Wait. Didn’t I just show you the vote where some Democrats voted for restrictions ?
 
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Is bacteria found on Mars 'life'?

'Science' says so...

But there's a 'question' whether a viable human baby is life?

Have you had a chance to show your children an abortion video and then explain why you support abortion?
Start your own thread questions of pro choice folks if you’d like.

This one is a serious question trying to square a moral circle.
 
Start your own thread questions of pro choice folks if you’d like.

This one is a serious question trying to square a moral circle.
It's telling that the pro-choice people always want to discuss the morality of the edge cases and not the morality of the girl that forgot to take her birth control or the couple that decided to go with the pull out method, or the other scenarios that make up the make up 99% of abortions that are abortion of convenience.
 
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It's telling that the pro-choice people always want to discuss the morality of the edge cases and not the morality of the girl that forgot to take her birth control or the couple that decided to go with the pull out method, or the other scenarios that make up the make up 99% of abortions that are abortion of convenience.
I just want to understand how people reconcile being okay with exceptions to abortion bans. What I’ve seen so far is that people do so as more of a means of practicality than anything else, which is fine.
 
It isn't going to happen, but i wish state legislators would take testimony from experienced male and female obstetricians and gynecologists who have a history of dealing with pregnancies.

A female obstetrician who had assisted in the birth to over 200 babies gave a lecture to a group to which I belong of seniors with various political and religious affiliations. Much of the lecture dealt with mothers who chose abortion along the risks of abortions. She also explained all the complications and risks involved with full term pregnancies.

Following the lecture, those in attendance had a group discussion. Practically everyone who spoke up admitted the lecture altered their perceptions to at least some degree about abortion and pregnancy in general. Many of the men commented about not realizing the mental and physical anxieties mothers can face after becoming pregnant.
 
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While it makes sense to take that approach from a religious standpoint, personally, I am not religious so the question I have is what is humane? Too much emphasis to me is put on whether a fetus is a person. Because a dog is not a person, do we not have to treat it humanely? Is it ok to kill it or cause it to suffer if it isn’t wanted? The fact is that at @ 20 weeks a fetus will feel pain, so is it ok to inflict suffering on it, or any living creature due to inconvenience, albeit a significant one?
Science doesn’t support that position. Are you supporting the elected Democrats’ de facto position of no abortion restrictions until birth?
What science has shown that life begins at conception?
 
It's telling that the pro-choice people always want to discuss the morality of the edge cases and not the morality of the girl that forgot to take her birth control or the couple that decided to go with the pull out method, or the other scenarios that make up the make up 99% of abortions that are abortion of convenience.
It’s also telling that the forces birth folks want to talk about the 1% of abortions in the last trimester.
 
What science has shown that life begins at conception?

Life begins at conception but cannot maintain itself in the progression towards being born unless it is successfully implanted on the uterus.

Many are naturally aborted (miscarriage) after conception and before implantation.
 
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What I stated is a fact.

WTH? Read what I responded to and what I wrote. I didn’t say what you seem to think I said.
Sorry confused two posts… life beginning at conception via religious doctrine that says life begins at first breath.
 
What science has shown that life begins at conception?
This is a non-answer to the points I raised. I didn’t mention life at conception in any context & don’t see the relevance to my post, which you responded to…
 
And my position changes all the time, but current is probably no trimester 3 except for health of fetus/and or mother. I’ll let you know if I change my mind after hearing stories at my Women 4 Change meeting tonight.
 
This is a non-answer to the points I raised. I didn’t mention life at conception in any context & don’t see the relevance to my post, which you responded to…
I started to respond to yours then responded to another. My response is above about trimester.
 
He relied on a report by the Indianapolis Star, which while they stand by their story, will not provide more details. This is a very difficult story to check. The Star is firmly on the record as backing the account, but obtaining documents or other confirmation is all but impossible without details that would identify the locality where the rape occurred.

A Gannett spokeswoman provided a comment from Bro Krift, the newspaper’s executive editor: “The facts and sourcing about people crossing state lines into Indiana, including the 10-year-old girl, for abortions are clear. We have no additional comment at this time.”

Biden also prefaced the remark saying "it's been reported that..."

Would it be preferable that politicians demand a higher level of proof? yes.


Well, I guess the Star was right and those doubting the story were wrong.

 
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