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Getting on in the years .... dealing with parents with dementia.. It's killing me.I am here for hope.
Well....that sucks. Wouldn't wish that on anyone.Getting on in the years .... dealing with parents with dementia.. It's killing me.I am here for hope.
Well...I read "dementia" and my mind immediately jumped to Alzheimer's...and the two aren't the same. Dementia is one of a myriad of symptoms of Alzheimer's, but it could also be one that occurs due to cough due to cold (or more likely flu) in elderly people, definitely stroke or a TIA (mini-stroke or transient ischemic attack, which my father had in addition to early-onset Alzheimer's), or a bunch of other conditions. (I'm not doctor and I didn't stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night, so....)My mom was diagnosed with dementia after her last stroke. We watch jeopardy together and do the LAT crossword together every single day. She is more lucid now than any doctor thought possible.
I don't mean others should expect the same, but I don't think hope is always groundless.
Getting on in the years .... dealing with parents with dementia.. It's killing me.I am here for hope.
Getting on in the years .... dealing with parents with dementia.. It's killing me.I am here for hope.
Don't sweat the small stuff. If they forget things they did five minutes ago don't agonize over it. Just go with it. As the dementia gets worse you have to think about living in the now and not in who they were. Enjoy them even if they don't know you. It's allright because you know them. Your memory will have to suffice for all of you. Hang in there my friend.Getting on in the years .... dealing with parents with dementia.. It's killing me.I am here for hope.
I haven't seen it yet and don't know the name of it (big help I know), but there is a critically acclaimed doc out on that very subject. Music really helping dementia patients.And music.
Fill the joint with music. All the time. All kinds. If it'll make a toe tap, play it.
MTIOTF (and maybe others) mentioned the need for music in dealing with folks with dementia. A friend of mine has been in the business of doing assessments and recommending solutions for old folks for the last 18 years (unfortunately in your case, only in the Atlanta area), and one of her solutions is a set of DVDs that are designed for visual and audio stimulation for dementia patients. Here's a link to her website: http://www.solutionsforseniors.com/. Hopefully it - and maybe the DVDs - can prove helpful to you.
Thanks to all that responded with insight and advice. Yesterday I got a little overwhelmed. I get so selfish sometimes which leads to guilt. I find myself thinking of outcomes that should not be thought.
Since my comment was very short and probably only marginally helpful, let me add something else that I think is very important to remember.Thanks to all that responded with insight and advice. Yesterday I got a little overwhelmed. I get so selfish sometimes which leads to guilt. I find myself thinking of outcomes that should not be thought.
Getting on in the years .... dealing with parents with dementia.. It's killing me.I am here for hope.