you need to post that naked in bed thing in order to get proper advice about your shoe fetish.
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CoH, in reading your post a couple of terms made me think. Did a little research and am wondering what your reaction might be to two websites.
The terms were "modern gender disconnect theory" and "toxic masculinity"
As to "modern gender disconnect theory" is this link which includes defining gender identity and gender expression an example of the "modern gender disconnect theory" being adopted by a commission ?
On the subject of "toxic masculinity" does this female organization website have any examples of "toxic masculinity" which have merit ?
Books Have been written about your questions. No way can I provide a decent answer in a post other than what I have said.
Like some things in physics, we can’t see the cause but the effects are clear. The proliferation and increase of microagressions, hypersensitivity, intolerance,, anxiety and depression, the disappearance of meritocracy are all evidence of toxic femininity. This showed up at Stanford law school when students, led by a female associate dean, shouted down a judge with whom they disagreed. The dean likely doesn’t know she was inappropriate.
Read the whole thing.
Books Have been written about your questions. No way can I provide a decent answer in a post other than what I have said.
Like some things in physics, we can’t see the cause but the effects are clear. The proliferation and increase of microagressions, hypersensitivity, intolerance,, anxiety and depression, the disappearance of meritocracy are all evidence of toxic femininity. This showed up at Stanford law school when students, led by a female associate dean, shouted down a judge with whom they disagreed. The dean likely doesn’t know she was inappropriate.
Read the whole thing.
So, you really don’t have anything.
Thanks.
I’m a pretty good detective, but I will need to examine all the evidence closely before I cum to my conclusion.
I told you a couple days ago you were going to get something spicier. Women love attention. Tell her the shoes look great on her.
She wrote back I want to Fing die! I actually think it might have been for her bf. I don’t know. I’m a mouse. A far cry from a man. Is there a dream team 2 I can coach? A step down
“So you got nothing“ posts always signal an unwillingness to think. Sometimes thinking through an issue is difficult.
It was for you. Send her back a picture of you in your oldest dirtiest shoes and ask her if she likes your new shoes. She’ll love it. You can’t step down as our leader. You’re our William Wallace.
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It really is too bad I hate most country music.
There's no arguably about it. When she was really invested there was no woman ever who could have taken a set off of her. Hell, probably not even two games.
Believe me. It doesn't feel like it but....
My grandfathers were born in 1885. My youngest grandmother was born in 1897.
My one grandfather never believed we went to the moon. But he blamed any bad weather on the rockets we were shooting into the air. lol
He always told the story how, during the war a banker in town would come out to his farm and tromp across a plowed field to ask my grandfather for some gas ration tickets, since farmers got more than the average person. I think he got great satisfaction out of that.
Wouldn't you be for Margo Robbie?
Chick is psycho. Don't do it. Just don't do it......
Right! Super nuts. I like that. I just wish I knew who that pic was for
I think it was for you. She's messing with you after your thirst trap post.
Women are cruel.
I’m thankful someone coined thirst traps. They are a big deal.
I guess it's descriptive, but I'm too old to be using a term like 'thirst trap'. lol
They’ve been an integral part of my adult life. Success and subsequent demise
I was roommates with a Rugby player at IU. You remind me of him.
Good looking guy who only lived to get laid. We were always amazed at the parade of women through our apartment. We were in awe of him.
We never allowed him to have a party at our place with his Rugby boys - wherever they went, something always got trashed.
There was a time when I also believed gender and sex were different. Then I ran across NYC’s list of dozens of genders it recognized. That is when I realized this whole gender expression thing is just nuts. There are two genders. The Toronto document is a product of the same point of view.
Of course people can believe what they want, but that doesn’t change objective biology. If a man wants to believe he is a woman, I don’t care. But that is a destruction of the objective nature of language and communication. Gender issues are not science but a product of liberal ideology and maybe spirituality . Campus studies show that those who believe it is okay to shout down disagreeable speakers are more likely to be or support trans. This is not without consequences. In some UK jurisdictions, the authorities were concerned with the noticeable increase in child abuse committed by women. Turns out the offenders were trans women. The NIH in the UK has banned hormones and other gender affirming care for kids. They believe that trans beliefs might just be a phase that kids will outgrow. Here, the leftist groups are all in on adolescent gender affirming care. In the UK, trans is science. In the US trans is ideology.
I do believe there is such things as toxic masculinity. We see it play out daily in almost every major city with the proliferation of shootings and hair-trigger emotions such as road rage. A lot of this is centered in the minority males. I think this is one more consequence of the feminization, of K-12 education. The idea that toxic masculinity is not being an ally of feminism is just nuts and needs no comment. Some of the other factors, such as risk taking, I believe to be an asset, not toxic.
Regarding your last paragraph, lack of good male role models also is a huge factor.
If you get your idea of masculinity from movies, you're going to think violence equals masculinity.
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That’s true. But I think it begins in public school. We are in our second or third generation of city public school failures.
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If masculinity is supposed to be a descriptive term, based on empirical evidence and what trait shows up in which gender the most, then violence is most certainly a trait of masculinity. If it is supposed to be a normative or aspirational term, then I guess you'd want to temper the trait's definition (although it is not necessarily always a negative given the need for a tribe, group, nation, or people to defend themselves).
I'm still not sure CoH is using the term in a consistent or coherent way.
I don't think schools make a difference in ideas of masculinity. Movies are much more influential to a young mind.
Not arguing schools aren't a failure, though.
Well, as he said, there's good masculinity and there's bad masculinity. I'm talking about always using violence to solve disputes - that's the bad violence.
Violence in defense of family, loved ones, the weak, etc., is the good violence, but needs to be controlled.
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I don't know who runs the Kangaroo Court of this place, but as a dude with a 12 yo daughter, I'm going to propose some sort of penalty for posting TS videos.
This popped up in the youtube feed. Mr. Reeves has a couple books out there which look interesting (Of Boys and Men and A New Contract with the MIddle Class). Of course, I know nothing about him other than this interview and my meager wikipedia research.
Not going to listen to the whole thing, but he's got an English accent, so I believe him.
That English accent got thousands of guys who can’t play a lick director gigs at clubs all over the country
So true. We had a group of guys from England give a camp for the soccer kids at my daughter's school. I went to a couple practices - those guys had no more clue how to coach than I did - and I didn't know much.
There was a kid who went to the same HS who was a very good soccer player in college. They hired him at the same HS as coach. He also was my daughter's U10 coach. He spent half his time talking to the parents while the game was going on and paying no attention to the game. And his HS team was mediocre (they dominated the county after he left).
Looks and presentation (and accents) play a big role in life.
Hung put with a guy on the rugby club team. The phrase "Let's throw <insert name> down the stairs" followed by uproarious laughter and volunteers for going second scared the crap out of me.
Those guys are nuts. Something tells me they wouldn't try it with a guy your size.
