Man, I don't know.
Privilege is real. But there are plenty of black people who have it. And plenty of white people who don't.
The fact that a higher percentage of white people have privilege than black people doesn't mean that our society has "white privilege." It just means that everybody comes from different backgrounds and has different exposures to things. Everybody has different parents -- some have shitty parents. Some have great parents.
And, for a number of reasons (including past discrimination), it's true that white people are, on average, better off than black people.
However, all people make different choices along their lives that have impact on their well-being. If somebody spends their life making lots of bad choices -- gambling, using drugs, dropping out of school, blowing off work, being lazy, having children in unstable family situations, spending more than they make, etc. etc. -- then they are far more likely to be in bad life situations than people who haven't made as many bad choices.
Screaming "No fair....privilege!" at people in better life situations isn't necessarily going to engender a lot of sympathy from me. Yes, some people are born into good or great circumstances. Some people are born into terrible circumstances. And it's absolutely true that success in life is going to favor those born into good ones. Deal with it. It's always been the case, always will.
But people can do themselves a huge favor by making good decisions. They will get better outcomes if they do. And they can live their lives and raise their families in such a way that their children can be said to come from a favorable environment rather than an unfavorable one.
I know many, many parents who came from meager circumstances and raised kids who did fantastically. If you weren't born into privilege, try to make it so that your kids were. You don't have to be rich to do this.