Two things:
- Unsubsidized golf is expensive to play a decent course. You can play a cow path for $30, but you're spending more to play a pleasantly kept course.
- My advice is to take lessons early. I never did and it's taken me 20 years to become competent. I shoot in the 80s consistently and after 20 years I should be much better than that.
in the midwest, you can play really nice courses for $20 bucks and less. (i suppose "nice" is a subjective term, so i'll add imo).
i've played nice cheap courses around LA as well.
look for afternoon and evening specials. (i love evening golf. cheap, not crowded).
i'd maybe be willing to throw down some money to play Augusta National or Pebble Beach or St. Andrews once each, just for the experience, (i realize that's not happening at Augusta), but other than those 3, i wouldn't spend big bucks on any course, when there are so many great much cheaper courses to be played.
being i'm way too old to be anal like McNutt, i play for fun and exercise, so no aversion to rolling it or the occasional, (or not so occasional), mulligan.
i love the excitement of hitting a great shot, more than i play for score.
once you don't feel the need to play it down all the time, you can save $40 - $100 a round on green fees.
i like cheap courses, because they allow me play much more often. (9 holes is pretty much my max any more, and i love to play in the evening when the course is almost empty on the front, and walk maybe 5 holes playing 3 balls).
with my arthritis, maximum shots for minimum walking is the best strategy, so playing multiple balls for fewer holes works out great.
golf is one of those things where you can spend a fortune, or play cheap and have just as much fun.
i have really nice clubs, so no need to upgrade anymore there. (like i said above, once you have a good 460 cc driver and good quality perimeter weighted irons, you're pretty much set, as rules pretty much limit things from there).
just don't ever try playing with worn grips. no one is good enough to pull that off.
if your grips aren't in great shape, re-grip. (cheapest way to drastically improve your clubs and game)
i am addicted to premium balls though, so usually get a dozen pro v 1s for Christmas every yr, and buy some used premium balls off ebay every spring to fill out my quota. (evening golf plus playing more than one ball does lead to more lost balls).