Heddington Hall at OU:
I absolutely get what you're saying, and I don't disagree. The problem is that before long, everybody has built a facility like this so that advantage is gone. And regardless of how extravagant you build it, the next guy will one-up you. Ultimately, billions have been spent and no advantage has been gained.
And while these things are built with donor money, they are staffed and maintained with university money - taxpayer money if the university is public. What is the per-student cost of operating facilities like these ? How does that effect tuition and housing costs for other students ?
I definitely understand how important something like this is to selling your program to top recruits. I just think a better solution is for the NCAA to limit the extravagance to prevent the arms race in the first place. If your mission is really the education of athletes first and foremost, they should not be isolated and insulated from the university at-large. They should be engaged at the highest possible level with other students who are not athletes.
For athletes who have to manage time, rest, maintain a proper diet, and still complete coursework, some specialized facilities are appropriate. They need tutorial help. They need a training/dietary facility. They need a great weight and exercise program. Many of them need larger spaces with quiet hours. But I think there is a happy medium somewhere between the dorm and its cafeteria and living in Mar-a-lago.
IU Athletic Housing
Which one would you choose as a top flight athlete?