Yes, that is always the fall back. Sorry guys, the rules changed over the last 4 years. Your side rioted, said an election was stolen, and various other nonsense like harassing people at restaurants...both popular and political figures and regular old people out having dinner who were not sufficiently supplicant to BLM. Your side got a GOP Congressman shot (and no you don't get to disavow that, it was the heated rhetoric from the left that caused that, it is the standard that you all use against the right so it shall be used on you).
When property starts getting destroyed, people start getting attacked, people are harassed at dinner, cities are taken over and autonomous zones are set up, and political leaders are attacked...then we will have the right finally caught up with the left. I am not going to worry about "ideas" because right now you all are a'twitter about words when you gleefully ignored actual actions the past 4 years. By the by, your side was wargaming secession if they lost this election.
So yes, you are talking about false equivalencies...on your side of this argument.
So again, I don't give a shit because you all put all of the things I mentioned above on the table in words and deeds the last 4 years and none of you cared. If it turns around and bites you on the ass for the next 4, why should I then care?