Man, even Richard recognized that I am much happier now that he is not playing. Richard was born with a health issue on his entire left leg that doubled the amount of veins and blood in his left leg and, as came out when the pros did their homework, could have resulted in a life threatening situation if hit. So I never liked him playing, never relaxed at a single game, and the family will tell you that I am much easier to be around at my younger son’s games. So it isn’t hanging on, I just don’t care for that turd. Anytime someone mentions Richard that asshat makes his anonymous cowardly condescending comments. He is a poison and doesn’t even realize it, the fool thinks he is knowledgeable.
There was a kid on the team when Richard was playing and his parents sat in the stand with other parents. I refused to sit anywhere near him but I couldn’t say anything because the son was one of Richards good friends on the team. But the dad would sit in the stands and tear down every other player except his own son and it was a poison just like this clown. You can’t tolerate people like that, you should not ignore them, they harm everyone around them, and if it isn’t called out it spreads and impacts the camaraderie. You would think he had some inside knowledge but everything he says is incorrect.
nevertheless, I get your point and appreciate the advice.