I too am concerned for your wife and daughter as they are on the front line. I don't like the ones partying on but I have to admit they don't see the danger in their life right now and I don't think it is selfish of them. I would like them to be more concerned for others but I feel the same way about bad drivers impaired or distracted. My guess is those drivers will kill more this year than this virus does but we don't know at this point.V13, I've always enjoyed your posts and am certain I would like you if we met in person. Feel the same about DanC. My guess is that's its ingrained in both your Very beings Not to Panic. I understand (I have the same set of values) and under nearly any other circumstances I'd completely agree with you (actually I do agree that no one should panic)...
My opinion is simply that this situation is one where doing what is seemingly too much on the short term is a lot better than having to deal with the worst case scenario over the longer term.
On a personal basis, I may be a little stupid because the virus doesn't "scare" me... I've been blessed to have survived close to 20 near death experiences over my journey... I don't get easily shook... When the Lord decides I get to come home he'll let me know, could be in the next minute, could be several years from now... I guess I still have more work to do because I'm still here...
I am concerned, scared, however you want to frame it, for my wife and daughter, both of whom are on the front line of the health care services...
I'd much rather that many of us be severely inconvenienced than even slightly add to the chances of their losing their lives because we didn't do everything we could to mitigate this pandemic...
If that's selfish of me then guilty as charged. I know for a Fact that my wife and daughter are worth more to society than a billion of the Party On and screw everyone else crowd...
My big concern is not having people exposed to this and building up immunity will do one of two things. One is a rebound that is worse than this round or two it mutates into something even worse. People act like they know the best course but aren't really aware of the ramifications of what they are proposing. I know I don't have enough knowledge about viruses but I remember other "epidemics" and know they don't turn out as bad the the "experts" say it can be.
I hope your daughter and wife have access to the right mask and gloves they need while caring for the very sick from this virus.