The use of the word, "ain't" is sometimes used for emphasis. I'm more upset I used the word,"to" instead of, "too". I will only answer your first question because your other questions are comments were silly. God has already told His church to do some things. For instance in the Great Commission in Matthew 28:16-20 says
16 But the eleven disciples proceeded to Galilee, to the mountain which Jesus had designated. 17 When they saw Him, they worshiped
Him; but some were doubtful. 18 And Jesus came up and spoke to them, saying, “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. 19 a]">[
a]Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you b]">[
b]always, even to the end of the age.”
So, the Church has general marching orders. Paul said in Galatians 6:9-10
Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary.So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.
In conclusion, the rule of thumb is to be part of the solution instead of part of the problem. In prayer we ask God to open our eyes to the hurting. Just this morning when I was visiting the couple I mentioned before the nurse said to me that she lost her husband six yrs ago. It was because I engaged her in conversation that she finally told me a complete stranger that her husband was gone. I doubt she tells this to very many people. I think I encouraged her too on my visit with the words I spoke. At least it was what I was trying to do.