Met someone

[sglowrider]

I got bored and wanted to refresh my life a little. Went went to one of those apps. I found someone --- feisty, lawyer; who after a few times, told me that she has certain role-playing fantasies. She likes the rape fantasy. Tied up, wants to be dominated or pinned down. Or even come into her house at night unexpectedly, and 'rape' her in her bedroom.

I had trouble sleeping later the night after she told me. Its never in my DNA to be a 'rapist', albeit role playing. I was thinking, 'How or what would I think of myself if I were to go through with it? Am I too vanilla? (I have had some interesting experiences in the past, like threesomes, three different women in an evening, lactating woman, married women, Karaoke bathroom sex, cars, Washington Monument, etc.

But this type of role play is a little outside my comfort zone.

I googled.

And to my surprise, there are a shockingly huge number of women who actually fantasise about it and would incorporate it into their sexual activities. So I came to the conclusion that I was vanilla.

I went online and got a bunch of stuff. (Ropes, bondage/binding, slave cuffs, collars, vibrators, ropes, silk stuff, etc)

I'm not sure I need to drink first!! I need to figure out if it affects my self-esteem after this too!!

Wish me luck!!!

 

[Mas-sa-suta]

I got bored and wanted to refresh my life a little. Went went to one of those apps. I found someone --- feisty, lawyer; who after a few times, told me that she has certain role-playing fantasies. She likes the rape fantasy. Tied up, wants to be dominated or pinned down. Or even come into her house at night unexpectedly, and 'rape' her in her bedroom.

I had trouble sleeping later the night after she told me. Its never in my DNA to be a 'rapist', albeit role playing. I was thinking, 'How or what would I think of myself if I were to go through with it? Am I too vanilla? (I have had some interesting experiences in the past, like threesomes, three different women in an evening, lactating woman, married women, Karaoke bathroom sex, cars, Washington Monument, etc.

But this type of role play is a little outside my comfort zone.

I googled.

And to my surprise, there are a shockingly huge number of women who actually fantasise about it and would incorporate it into their sexual8^ activities. So I came to the conclusion that I was vanilla.

I went online and got a bunch of stuff. (Ropes, bondage/binding, slave cuffs, collars, vibrators, ropes, silk stuff, etc)

I'm not sure I need to drink first!! I need to figure out if it affects my self-esteem after this too!!

Wish me luck!!!

8^

 

[hoosier roadtrips]

It is like the joke that the man tells the woman "So help me, I will.rape you." She replied, "So rape me, I will help you."

 

[LifelongIU77]

It is surprisingly common. All ages and types. It shocked me too,but it definitely is true.

 

[MyTeamIsOnTheFloor]

I got bored and wanted to refresh my life a little. Went went to one of those apps. I found someone --- feisty, lawyer; who after a few times, told me that she has certain role-playing fantasies. She likes the rape fantasy. Tied up, wants to be dominated or pinned down. Or even come into her house at night unexpectedly, and 'rape' her in her bedroom.

I had trouble sleeping later the night after she told me. Its never in my DNA to be a 'rapist', albeit role playing. I was thinking, 'How or what would I think of myself if I were to go through with it? Am I too vanilla? (I have had some interesting experiences in the past, like threesomes, three different women in an evening, lactating woman, married women, Karaoke bathroom sex, cars, Washington Monument, etc.

But this type of role play is a little outside my comfort zone.

I googled.

And to my surprise, there are a shockingly huge number of women who actually fantasise about it and would incorporate it into their sexual activities. So I came to the conclusion that I was vanilla.

I went online and got a bunch of stuff. (Ropes, bondage/binding, slave cuffs, collars, vibrators, ropes, silk stuff, etc)

I'm not sure I need to drink first!! I need to figure out if it affects my self-esteem after this too!!

Wish me luck!!!

Her real fantasy is shooting a guy and getting away with it.

 

[All4You]

I got bored and wanted to refresh my life a little. Went went to one of those apps. I found someone --- feisty, lawyer; who after a few times, told me that she has certain role-playing fantasies. She likes the rape fantasy. Tied up, wants to be dominated or pinned down. Or even come into her house at night unexpectedly, and 'rape' her in her bedroom.

I had trouble sleeping later the night after she told me. Its never in my DNA to be a 'rapist', albeit role playing. I was thinking, 'How or what would I think of myself if I were to go through with it? Am I too vanilla? (I have had some interesting experiences in the past, like threesomes, three different women in an evening, lactating woman, married women, Karaoke bathroom sex, cars, Washington Monument, etc.

But this type of role play is a little outside my comfort zone.

I googled.

And to my surprise, there are a shockingly huge number of women who actually fantasise about it and would incorporate it into their sexual activities. So I came to the conclusion that I was vanilla.

I went online and got a bunch of stuff. (Ropes, bondage/binding, slave cuffs, collars, vibrators, ropes, silk stuff, etc)

I'm not sure I need to drink first!! I need to figure out if it affects my self-esteem after this too!!

Wish me luck!!!

 

[76mgdriver]

Be very careful--
Rape joke got a certain IU coach in hot water in a more lenient decade....

 

[iubud]

I got bored and wanted to refresh my life a little. Went went to one of those apps. I found someone --- feisty, lawyer; who after a few times, told me that she has certain role-playing fantasies. She likes the rape fantasy. Tied up, wants to be dominated or pinned down. Or even come into her house at night unexpectedly, and 'rape' her in her bedroom.

I had trouble sleeping later the night after she told me. Its never in my DNA to be a 'rapist', albeit role playing. I was thinking, 'How or what would I think of myself if I were to go through with it? Am I too vanilla? (I have had some interesting experiences in the past, like threesomes, three different women in an evening, lactating woman, married women, Karaoke bathroom sex, cars, Washington Monument, etc.

But this type of role play is a little outside my comfort zone.

I googled.

And to my surprise, there are a shockingly huge number of women who actually fantasise about it and would incorporate it into their sexual activities. So I came to the conclusion that I was vanilla.

I went online and got a bunch of stuff. (Ropes, bondage/binding, slave cuffs, collars, vibrators, ropes, silk stuff, etc)

I'm not sure I need to drink first!! I need to figure out if it affects my self-esteem after this too!!

Wish me luck!!!

That is her fantasy. Hopefully it isn't yours. That is a line I would stay clear of especially with someone I met on an app without a history. I believe your first instinct is correct.

In the words of the poet Meatloaf, I'll do anything for love, but I won't do that.

 

[larsIU]

@mcmurtry66 @BradStevens

wtf is a Washington monument?

Is @sglowrider someone I need to meet IRL (in his locale, where all this makes sense)?

Possibly. I’ll need a divorce first.

 

[mcmurtry66]

@mcmurtry66 @BradStevens

wtf is a Washington monument?

Is @sglowrider someone I need to meet IRL (in his locale, where all this makes sense)?

Possibly. I’ll need a divorce first.

I would submit that it’s cause for staying married 🤣🤣

 

[mcmurtry66]

I got bored and wanted to refresh my life a little. Went went to one of those apps. I found someone --- feisty, lawyer; who after a few times, told me that she has certain role-playing fantasies. She likes the rape fantasy. Tied up, wants to be dominated or pinned down. Or even come into her house at night unexpectedly, and 'rape' her in her bedroom.

I had trouble sleeping later the night after she told me. Its never in my DNA to be a 'rapist', albeit role playing. I was thinking, 'How or what would I think of myself if I were to go through with it? Am I too vanilla? (I have had some interesting experiences in the past, like threesomes, three different women in an evening, lactating woman, married women, Karaoke bathroom sex, cars, Washington Monument, etc.

But this type of role play is a little outside my comfort zone.

I googled.

And to my surprise, there are a shockingly huge number of women who actually fantasise about it and would incorporate it into their sexual activities. So I came to the conclusion that I was vanilla.

I went online and got a bunch of stuff. (Ropes, bondage/binding, slave cuffs, collars, vibrators, ropes, silk stuff, etc)

I'm not sure I need to drink first!! I need to figure out if it affects my self-esteem after this too!!

Wish me luck!!!

Wellness check. You still alive? Part of the skin trade? United still has hope ya know

 

[BradStevens]

@mcmurtry66 @BradStevens

wtf is a Washington monument?

Is @sglowrider someone I need to meet IRL (in his locale, where all this makes sense)?

Possibly. I’ll need a divorce first.

Ever seen The Last Seduction with Linda Fiorentino? Good movie. Very apropos.

I don't get the Washington monument reference. What am I missing?

Edit: ah, I see it. I'd take that kind of stuff with a grain of salt.

 

[sglowrider]

@mcmurtry66 @BradStevens

wtf is a Washington monument?

Is @sglowrider someone I need to meet IRL (in his locale, where all this makes sense)?

Possibly. I’ll need a divorce first.

Thats the shite I can think off the top of my head. I am sure there has been other unsavoury stuff... just forgotten.

 

[sglowrider]

Wellness check. You still alive? Part of the skin trade? United still has hope ya know

I got some of my 'goods/tools' -- I have thought of multiple themes. But I will start with a basic ones first.

Today, this afternoon is my first lesson of love for her. I have a game plan with multiple steps. I have developed multiple routes, including one that includes her fantasy role play, but that will come later. Start with some tantric principles first.

But i have to look at some EVs first, after our lunch.

 

[frikkenfrakken]

I got some of my 'goods/tools' -- I have thought of multiple themes. But I will start with a basic ones first.

Today, this afternoon is my first lesson of love for her. I have a game plan with multiple steps. I have developed multiple routes, including one that includes her fantasy role play, but that will come later. Start with some tantric principles first.

But i have to look at some EVs first, after our lunch.

If you're going to do any rape simulation, I strongly suggest you get prior consent in writing, with delineated boundaries and safewords, and that you record it, at least with audio, in order to have a record that you remained within the agreement.

I know, it doesn't sound sexy, but neither does 10 years in prison followed by sex offender registration.

And, a lawyer will understand the need.

 

[larsIU]

If you're going to do any rape simulation, I strongly suggest you get prior consent in writing, with delineated boundaries and safewords, and that you record it, at least with audio, in order to have a record that you remained within the agreement.

I know, it doesn't sound sexy, but neither does 10 years in prison followed by sex offender registration.

And, a lawyer will understand the need.

^^^^^^This guy rap…..

Nope. Not gonna do it…bad Lars bad Lars.

 

[IU_Hickory]

at least it isn't a train fantasy.

surprised that lars hasn't asked for her mom's number lol

 

[larsIU]

at least it isn't a train fantasy.

surprised that lars hasn't asked for her mom's number lol

That's what DMs are for man.

 

[IU_Hickory]

That's what DMs are for man.

good point

 

[sglowrider]

If you're going to do any rape simulation, I strongly suggest you get prior consent in writing, with delineated boundaries and safewords, and that you record it, at least with audio, in order to have a record that you remained within the agreement.

I know, it doesn't sound sexy, but neither does 10 years in prison followed by sex offender registration.

And, a lawyer will understand the need.

She is the one asking for it. Not my suggestion.

Her logic is that she is a ball buster at work. Battling all the time. She just wants to have a time when she can be the submissive one.

 

[IU_Hickory]

She is the one asking for it. Not my suggestion.

Her logic is that she is a ball buster at work. Battling all the time. She just wants to have a time when she can be the submissive one.

Think you may have misunderstood his point. He was just saying to cover your ass in case things turn sideways. I would at least go with a safeword since saying no might be mistaken as part of the rape fantasy role.

 

[frikkenfrakken]

She is the one asking for it. Not my suggestion.

Her logic is that she is a ball buster at work. Battling all the time. She just wants to have a time when she can be the submissive one.

I know, but people have a funny way of changing their mind sometimes. Get it in writing. The Detective assigned to the case won't believe you without it.

 

[frikkenfrakken]

^^^^^^This guy rap…..

Nope. Not gonna do it…bad Lars bad Lars.

Lolz. I have not committed that crime. I have documentation to prove it.

 

[iubud]

She is the one asking for it. Not my suggestion.

Her logic is that she is a ball buster at work. Battling all the time. She just wants to have a time when she can be the submissive one.

Rape is right up there with wife beating for scum of the earth people. I'm running away from any woman that wants to put me in a position to play like a rapist. If she doesn't have respect for herself, you can plant some respect in her by telling her what she is proposing is simulating an act of violence and she is better than that and you are better than that.