Those are just a few examples. You are out of your element here, completely. When the Big 12 had their exodus a few years ago, there was plenty of disparaging going on by Athletic Directors toward other schools. Are you going to sit and tell me those AD's weren't really athletic administrators? The same is true with the Big East, CUSA and other schools. Try again, but you couldn't be more off base.
We (athletic administrators) often were very cordial with other athletic departments as a matter of courtesy and professionalism. However, there were times that things happened in scheduling, recruiting, or you name it where beefs would come into play. You try to work it out between parties, then you get the conference involved. I'm retired, I can openly state my convictions about some departments vs others. For you to suggest for a minute that current or former athletic department administrators think everything is rainbows and sunshine kisses between other schools is wrong on every level. Human beings are involved, and not all of them are ethical. Attend a conference meeting sometime, which I know you never have, and you will see some of it. Again, usually things are professional, but not always. I call O$U because they have earned it over the years. That doesn't change my career, my roles or anything of the kind. There were ADs that despised other ADs, we had one at IU by the way, that wasn't very well liked by most of the conference.
If you think for a second I'm going to help you with anything with your obsessive behavior, you have another thing coming.